Sunday, June 8, 2014

Etiquette: The Princesses



In the early years after the Second World War, the role models for little girls were the young princesses, Princess Elizabeth and Princess Margaret. 

It was time for afternoon tea, as two little girls sat a children’s table, sipping iced-tea from miniature teacups.

“Mommy says we have to learn the etiquette of princesses.”

Eight-year old Lucy held her teacup with her small pinkie out-stretched for balance, showing her little sister how to drink tea graciously. Dressed in pretty cotton dresses, white socks and patent leather shoes, and with matching bows in their hair, they looked like princesses.

“Sit up straight at the table. Hold your tea cup like this.” Graciousness seemed to come naturally for Lucy, but it was not that easy for her six-year old sister, Miranda, who was clumsy by nature.

“Grandma gave me this set of dishes for my sixth birthday,” Miranda boasted. It was a four-piece set of porcelain, miniature doll dishes, with tiny red and white flowers. “I love it.” 

“I know,” said Lucy. Inwardly, Lucy was jealous because Miranda received more attention from her grandmother. “You said thank you?”

“Of course.” Miranda was always appreciative of the gifts her grandmother gave her.  

“You spilled it!” said Lucy, angrily. “At least it’s only in the saucer. You have to learn how to do it right! Take your spoon out of the teacup. Do not put your finger through the handle! Can’t you ever do anything right?”

“I am sorry,” replied Miranda. “You always do everything right!”

“Don’t stir your tea in a circle. Just fold it back and forth with your teaspoon. Then, put it on the right side of the teacup, not on the table. As you drink your tea, place the cup back in the saucer, not on the table or on your lap.”

“How will I remember?” asked Miranda. “I’m going to play baseball. That’s more fun!”    

“There’ll only be one queen. How will I ever make you into a princess?”

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